Shift from overwhelm and chaos to
Peace
Do you feel overwhelmed as a
parent?
Without guidance, the overabundance of parenting information can leave us feeling inadequate and stuck. When you add in parenting a neurodivergent child, it can feel nearly impossible! Our parenting methods can create conflict with our children, leading to power struggles and low self-esteem instead of connection, confidence, and skill building. This leaves us with broken and distant relationships, and children who aren’t able to navigate the world successfully.
When we parent our neurodivergent kids without understanding how they think, we are left feeling helpless and destined to repeat painful patterns, no matter how badly we want it to be different.
Community
Find support! Parenting can feel very lonely and overwhelming. Build and sustain a community where you can grow and give back to others.
Curiosity
Replace labels and comparison with curiosity about how the brain works and the reasons behind challenging behaviors - let’s celebrate each unique child!
Consistency
Incorporate daily practices and simple strategies that lead to long-term results. Parenting is a lifelong journey, taken one small step and phase at a time.
Don’t Do This Alone.
Guidance & Community
Are Here!
No matter what your family situation looks like right now, there is hope.
Depending on where things are at, it can be hard to believe there is truly another way. But I promise you there is.
None of us start off as parents knowing what to do. We create plans, try to be the people we want to be and watch as our perfect ideas get run over by the reality of daily life and the immense pressures of caring for our kids.
Hi! I’m Ashley Ogbaselassie
I love working with families navigating ADHD—because I have one! After spending over 15 years as an engineer and project manager, I realized the same skills I used to recognize patterns, build repeatable systems, and lead high-performing teams could be life-changing for families, too. Now, I help parents get to the root causes of the chaos, untangle the overwhelm, and create systems that actually work for neurodiverse brains. My approach is collaborative, compassionate, and practical—because raising kids with ADHD isn’t about perfection, it’s about progress. And when we shift the lens from “fixing” to “understanding,” real change begins.
When I'm not coaching families, you can find me hanging with my three high-energy sons and my husband—we’re a full-on basketball family! If we’re not watching a game, we’re playing one (yes, even in the driveway). I’m a super extrovert who thrives on connecting people, building community, and turning even the smallest moment into a party (yes, I'm usually the first one on the dance floor!). I believe that joy, laughter, real talk, and a solid support crew are just as important as any parenting strategy.
Professionally, I’m a certified parent coach through the Jai Institute for Parenting, with a B.S. in Electrical Engineering from the University of Virginia and an M.S. in Management from George Washington University. Before coaching, I spent 15+ years leading projects and managing teams, both large and small. Today, I bring that same strategic mindset to my work with countless families, taking a whole-family approach to ADHD and supporting organizations with education on intentional, strengths-based parenting. As both an ADHD parent and a person with ADHD, I know the messy middle intimately—and I’m here to tell you, there’s a way through it, and you don’t have to walk it alone.
The traditional parenting approach
doesn’t work for neurodivergent kids.
It makes you feel like you’re not doing a good job.
But that’s not the truth. I believe that the real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be so we end up using strategies that don’t work for our specific families.
Which is why when you contact me, you will be met with understanding, a non-judgemental openness and a supportive, personalized, effective plan that I will guide you through every step of the way.
How It Works:
When you book a call with me, we’ll sit down together and talk so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
Let's Talk!
So that you don’t have to do this alone..
And instead take the first step towards a more peaceful family..
